Consider the first column. Let M be the maximum value of the entries in this column. Then M≥1/10, by pigeonhole principle. Writing the first column a1,1,a2,1,…,a10,1, let M=aj,1, for some j. Consider the sum
l=2∑10(aj,1ak,l+aj,lak,1),
where k=j. This is equal to
aj,1(l=2∑10ak,l)+ak,1(l=2∑10aj,l)=aj,1(1−ak,1)+ak,1(1−aj,1).
Varying k from 1 to 10, k=j, we get
k=j∑l=2∑10(aj,1ak,l+aj,lak,1)=k=j∑aj,1(1−ak,1)+ak,1(1−aj,1)=aj,1k=j∑(1−ak,1)+(1−aj,1)k=j∑ak,1=aj,1(8+aj,1)+(1−aj,1)2=M2+8M+(1−M)2=2M2+6M+1≥2(1001+103)+1=5081.
There are 9×9=81 summands in the above sum. Hence we can find k,l such that
aj,1ak,l+aj,lak,1≥501