Due to the right angles at A and D, we have △ADB∼△CAB (hh). From this, it follows that ∣AB∣∣AD∣=∣CB∣∣CA∣. Since ∣AE∣=21∣AD∣ and ∣CF∣=21∣CA∣, it also follows that ∣AB∣∣AE∣=∣CB∣∣CF∣. From the previous similarity, we also get ∠BAE=∠BAD=∠BCA=∠BCF, so with (zhz) we now have △AEB∼△CFB. This implies ∠ABE=∠CBF.
Furthermore, EF is a midline in triangle ADC, so EF∥BC. With Z-angles, this gives ∠CBF=∠BFE. Due to the inscribed angle theorem and subsequently the angle sum in isosceles triangle EBM, we have ∠BFE=21∠BME=90∘−∠EBM. Therefore, ∠ABE=∠CBF=90∘−∠EBM. We conclude that ∠ABM=∠ABE+∠EBM=90∘. Thus, AC∥BM.