*Answer: (a,b)∈{(43n,43m−1), (43n−42,43m), (43n−6,43m−7), (43n+7−43,43m+6−43)∣n,m∈Z≥1}.*
If p=43 then it follows from Fermat's little theorem that a≡b+1(mod43). Hence if a is divisible by 43 then b≡−1(mod43) and if b is divisible by 43 then a≡1(mod43). For such a pair (a,b), it is clear that ap−bp−1 is divisible by 43 for every prime p. Thus, we can assume that ab is not divisible by 43.
Since a41−b41−1 is divisible by 43 we obtain
b≡ba42≡ab42+ab≡a+ab(mod43).
Thus b2+b+1≡0(mod43), implying that b≡6(mod43) and a≡7(mod43) respectively. To see that a41−b41−1 is divisible by 43 for any p≥5, it is enough to see that (b+1)p−bp−1≡0(modb2+b+1) which follows from (−b2)p−bp−1≡0(modb2+b+1).